nekorb (original poster member #40306) posted at 5:38 PM on Monday, May 5th, 2025
First couples counseling scheduled for next week.
I am reminding myself that he is going without arguing, persuading, begging. None of it. He just agreed to go, and that in and of itself shows commitment.
I think it’s easy to fall into the vilification whirlwind when we are hurt and angry, and I’m making a conscious effort not to do that.
Breathing in and out.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
nekorb (original poster member #40306) posted at 3:42 AM on Sunday, May 11th, 2025
Short update
G5 and I went out for dinner and bowling with DD and Son in law. It was their treat for Mother’s Day. Whole evening went fine. Both men were a little hesitant at first but by the end of the night everything was relaxed and fun with all getting along.
Whew.
Looking forward to our first session on Thursday.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
