mindracing ( new member #81066) posted at 5:16 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2025
Bigger,
Logged in just to tell you how much I loved that saw analogy.
WB1340 ( member #85086) posted at 5:03 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2025
The best thing I did albeit five months too late was to tell my wife's AP's wife about the affair.
The worst thing I did was jump into MC the next week. I would suggest stopping the MC, start IC, and wait several months before considering MC. The MC's goal is to keep a couple together, get the win :/ Wait until your head is clear and you feel stable. Then decide if you want to save the marriage.
If you will feel safer by her quitting her job then make the demand. If she says no, well then you know what her priorities are.
D-day April 4th 2024. WW was sexting with a married male coworker. Started R a week later, still ongoing...
IJustWantToKnow234 ( new member #86446) posted at 7:51 PM on Friday, August 8th, 2025
UseD2,
I see a lot of "we", "her", but not a lot of "me" in your posts.
When are you going to think and care about YOU???
Please take the advice already given here: eat, sleep, drink water.
For most people, the pain of betrayal is the most painful event of their life.
You can forgive, but you will definitely not forget.
If you rug sweep, this can come later, let's say 5 years (ask me how I know), and it will hit you HARDER than D-Day.
